Oh men, poor men with their pathetic and unexamined lives! While men are the main perpetrators of toxic masculinity, they are also the unfortunate victims, and this is perhaps never more evident in their willingness to, as the saying goes, do anything than go to therapy. Somehow, it’s shocking. Can you imagine resisting the joys of discarding your soul from a professional? Imagine rejecting restored relationships, the feeling of pushing forward, the promise of a good cry, the mustard seed of hope that with a little help, you, you! – it could be the one that finally breaks the cycle of intergenerational trauma that has weakened your family for centuries. Better yet, don’t imagine it: it’s too sad to contemplate this kind of self-sabotage resistance.